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N\u011bkdy n\u00e1s na konci dlouh\u00e9ho boje pln\u00e9ho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dek\u00e1 jen frustrace, drtiv\u00e1 prohra a p\u00e1d … ","datePublished":"2019-12-26","dateModified":"2023-05-03","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e0a4ee3123bc6cda06472cb29cefd2abfa18c894e6c63b3d8bc84df8da10f637?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e0a4ee3123bc6cda06472cb29cefd2abfa18c894e6c63b3d8bc84df8da10f637?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"aacs.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a362881_w3086_t1575809876.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a362881_w3086_t1575809876.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/5-tipu-jak-se-dusevne-vyrovnat-s-neuspechem\/","about":["\u017divotn\u00ed styl"],"wordCount":621,"articleBody":"V\u0161echny na\u0161e z\u00e1\u017eitky a zku\u0161enosti bohu\u017eel nekon\u010d\u00ed v\u017edy happy endem. N\u011bkdy n\u00e1s na konci dlouh\u00e9ho boje pln\u00e9ho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dek\u00e1 jen frustrace, drtiv\u00e1 prohra a p\u00e1d na dno. Je jedno, jestli se jedn\u00e1 o \u0161patnou zn\u00e1mku ze zkou\u0161ky nebo ztr\u00e1tu \u017eivotn\u00edho partnera. Je jedno, o co bojujeme, prohra n\u00e1s bol\u00ed v\u017edy do jist\u00e9 m\u00edry stejn\u011b a ze stejn\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu \u2013 jde o pocit, \u017ee jsme v\u00a0n\u011b\u010dem neusp\u011bli, zklamali sebe i druh\u00e9, \u017ee na\u0161e snaha v\u00a0n\u011b\u010dem usp\u011bt p\u0159i\u0161la vnive\u010d. Takov\u00e9 pro\u017eitky pak st\u0159\u00eddaj\u00ed stavy jako deprese, beznad\u011bj, c\u00edt\u00edme se ztracen\u00ed a litujeme sami sebe.\t\u010casto se pt\u00e1me, pro\u010d se n\u00e1m n\u011bco nepovedlo. N\u011bkdy je mo\u017en\u00e1 lep\u0161\u00ed pt\u00e1t se, co s\u00a0t\u00edmto stavem m\u016f\u017eeme d\u011blat. Nikdo nechce b\u00fdt v\u011b\u010dn\u011b ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a neust\u00e1le se ohl\u00ed\u017eet do minulosti. Pro\u017eijte si sv\u016fj z\u00e1rmutek z\u00a0prohry a zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, ale v\u010das se oklepejte a jd\u011bte d\u00e1l pomoc\u00ed n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00edch postup\u016f a princip\u016f:\t\t1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Racionalizace\tN\u011bkdy n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee ut\u011b\u0161it fakt, \u017ee jsme sice o danou v\u011bc m\u011bli velik\u00fd z\u00e1jem, ale nen\u00ed to jedin\u00fd c\u00edl v\u00a0na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b. T\u0159eba by n\u00e1s to nakonec stejn\u011b nebavilo, t\u0159eba to nebyl ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd c\u00edl, t\u0159eba by to byla jen ztr\u00e1ta \u010dasu. T\u0159eba to nebylo pro n\u00e1s to prav\u00e9 a m\u011bli bychom se rad\u011bji v\u011bnovat n\u011b\u010demu jin\u00e9mu.\t2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 N\u00e1hrada\tNed\u00e1 se nic d\u011blat a nem\u00e1 smysl plakat nad rozlit\u00fdm ml\u00e9kem. Pokud je na cest\u011b p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka, nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 ne\u017e ji p\u0159ekro\u010dit nebo obej\u00edt a vydat se jinou cestou. Mo\u017en\u00e1 \u00fapln\u011b zm\u011bnit sm\u011br. M\u016f\u017eeme tuto prohru br\u00e1t jako impuls k\u00a0hled\u00e1n\u00ed nov\u00e9ho c\u00edle, nov\u00e9ho z\u00e1palu. Zkusme se co nejd\u0159\u00edve pono\u0159it do sv\u00e9ho nitra a naj\u00edt si n\u011bco nov\u00e9ho, v\u00a0co m\u016f\u017eeme v\u011b\u0159it a za co bojovat.\t3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Osud\tM\u011blo to tak b\u00fdt, m\u011blo se to tak st\u00e1t. P\u0159esto\u017ee jsme do velk\u00e9 m\u00edry p\u00e1ny sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota a sv\u00fdch pro\u017eitk\u016f, n\u011bkdy n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee uklidnit prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed a uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 prost\u011b zkr\u00e1tka maj\u00ed sv\u016fj d\u016fvod a sv\u00e9 na\u010dasov\u00e1n\u00ed. To, \u017ee n\u00e1m n\u011bco nevy\u0161lo, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee na to nem\u00e1me, znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee n\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, jen jsme k\u00a0tomu je\u0161t\u011b nedosp\u011bli. A mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee se za p\u00e1r let ohl\u00e9dneme a p\u0159ipomeneme si tento okam\u017eik s\u00a0my\u0161lenkou \u201eje\u0161t\u011b \u017ee to tak tehdy dopadlo, d\u00edky tomu jsem p\u0159esn\u011b tam, kde m\u00e1m b\u00fdt\u201c.\t4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sd\u00edlen\u00ed\tNebojte se o sv\u00fdch prohr\u00e1ch mluvit s\u00a0lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou v\u00e1m nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed. Ne nadarmo se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee sd\u00edlen\u00fd smutek je polovi\u010dn\u00ed smutek. N\u011bkdy pom\u016f\u017ee vypov\u00eddat se. T\u0159eba d\u00edky tomu i zjist\u00edte, \u017ee nejste jedin\u00ed, kdo za\u017eil n\u011bjak\u00e9 velik\u00e9 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed.\t5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Odm\u011bna za snahu\tOce\u0148te sami sebe u\u017e jen za to, \u017ee jste se sna\u017eili n\u011b\u010deho dos\u00e1hnout, \u017ee jste se sna\u017eili ud\u011blat n\u011bjakou zm\u011bnu. To je krok kup\u0159edu. A jak se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, i cesta m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ten c\u00edl.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (12 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"5 tip\u016f, jak se du\u0161evn\u011b vyrovnat s ne\u00fasp\u011bchem","item":"https:\/\/www.aacs.cz\/5-tipu-jak-se-dusevne-vyrovnat-s-neuspechem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]